It was about mid-November that I stopped watching the news. I also have been heavily avoiding social media.
I made it through the holidays and then all of a sudden realized it was 2017.
For most of those that know me, they know that I am a planner. But this year, I have struggled a bit.
I didn’t actually sit down and begin even thinking about 2017 until yesterday, January 3rd.
I am not a resolutions person by any means. But I do believe in preparing for my year and at least establishing a theme for what I hope to make of my upcoming year. January is also my birth month, so I tend to feel inspired for the whole new year of life that is ahead of me.
This January just hasn’t been like that.
To be fair, I have worked about 50 hours a week and had a lot to process in my personal life, but either way, dominique has not thought ahead as I usually do.
I know I would be insanely displeased with myself if I didn’t finally sit down and give 2017 a bit of thought.
Here’s what the process finally looked like.
- It was better late than never.
Like I said, I would have been utterly disgusted with myself had I walked away from the New Year and not established any aspirations and ambitions for myself.
- I bought myself a new planner for the entire year.
I’ve been a journal-er pretty much my entire life. Literally since I was 7. I still have the first journal. But more recently I have gotten into some more specific type of life mapping. There are a ton of planner varieties out there these days. I’ve heard of Happy Planners, Self-Journals and my new one: Passion Planner. I am by no means here to endorse any specific one. All of our needs are different, but this one allowed me to have a place for both my personal endeavors as well as my work ones. I also just need something physical to write in to keep me on task.
- I sat down and daydreamed.
I know this is called “More Than Dreamers” but the dreaming part has to exist prior to the pursuit. Otherwise, we might as well call ourselves cats; running from random room to random room. The passion planner made it really easy for me to get some things out of my brain. Things that would bring me fulfillment. Then it had me write out some very practical things I can do right now to get started.
- I crafted a plan.
Its important to know that this plan is not ironclad. Hell, I am hopeful to stick with it for at least a week. If I can do that, then I know I am in for an extended period of time. But either way, some structure must exist. I need a target to shoot for in order to track any potential progress made.
- I plan on doing it.
For real. You’ve heard the quote…A goal without a plan is merely a wish. Unfortunately, we can’t wish our life into awesomeness. Otherwise this would be called “Wishful Dreamers.” It just doesn’t work that way.
Have you ever known somebody who just seemingly woke up one day and made a decision and then stuck by it? I know you have. Think about it. I am positive you know somebody who you hadn’t seen in a while (or maybe you did) Either way, they decided one day that they were finally going to do this healthy thing and lose a bunch of weight. You watch their weigh-loss journey on social media. They post inspirational quotes that talk about how nobody else did the work for them. Then boom! They show up to some event that you attended and are 50 pounds lighter and are glowing with confidence, telling everyone about their story because everyone wants to “know their secret.”
Yeah, there is no secret. The answer is something we all already know. Hard work and consistency. They finally just did it. Let go of their excuses and went for it.
So can you. So can I.
Who cares if it’s January 4th. Who cares if you haven’t let yourself dream in a while. You owe it to yourself. And remember, nobody else is going to do it for you.
So if you haven’t yet, take 20 minutes right now to step back and invest into your future. Without giving yourself an opportunity, you’re destined to stay the same person that you have always been.
Let’s do more than dream in 2017.